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ADHD & Building Confidence: Strategies That Actually Work
Confidence can feel slippery when you’re living with ADHD—here one day, gone the next. This isn’t because you’re incapable or inconsistent by nature. It’s because your brain and nervous system operate with a unique rhythm, shaped by wiring, lived experience, and often trauma. Confidence doesn’t grow through willpower or perfection. It grows through small, compassionate, repeatable steps that work with your brain, not against it. Below are ten strategies designed for ADHD mi
Lillyana
Nov 203 min read


ADHD, Trauma, and the Nervous System’s Need for Little Moments
The Power of Micro-Connections: Small Moments That Reroute a Nervous System We often discuss healing as if it occurs through grand gestures—life-changing insights, major breakthroughs, or dramatic behavioral shifts. However, for many, especially those with ADHD or trauma, healing seldom arrives in one sweeping moment. It comes through micro-connections —those small, consistent, almost unnoticed moments of attunement that quietly tell the nervous system: “You’re safe. You’re s
Lillyana
Nov 203 min read


Pivot Planning Guide When Life Throws a Wrench
Life rarely follows a perfect plan. Sometimes unexpected changes disrupt your day, making it hard to stay on track. This is especially true for people with ADHD, who often face unique challenges with shifting priorities and managing energy. A clear, step-by-step pivot planning guide can help you regain control and move forward without feeling overwhelmed. This post breaks down a practical, ADHD-friendly approach to pivot planning that anyone can use when things don’t go as ex
Lillyana
Nov 194 min read


ADHD and Time Blindness: Why “Just Be On Time” Isn’t So Simple
If you’re navigating life with ADHD, you’ve likely heard the well-meaning advice: “You just need to manage your time better.” But let’s...
Lillyana
Aug 313 min read


ADHD and People-Pleasing: Why “Yes” Feels Safer Than “No”
Many folks with ADHD find themselves not only juggling focus and organization like a circus act but also struggling with the art of...
Lillyana
Aug 293 min read


ADHD and Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria: Working With a Tender Heart
For a lot of folks with ADHD, the toughest part isn't always the distraction or staying organized—it's the intensity of emotions....
Lillyana
Aug 273 min read


ADHD and Dopamine Seeking: Understanding the Brain’s Cravings for Stimulation
One of the big misconceptions about ADHD is how much it’s tied to dopamine . Dopamine is this interesting neurotransmitter that’s all...
Lillyana
Aug 272 min read


A Gentle Guide for Working Moms with ADHD
Trauma-Informed Tools for Thriving Amid Life’s Demands 1. Why ADHD Feels Different for Moms ADHD in motherhood is often misunderstood and...
Lillyana
Jul 313 min read


ADHD Strategies
PDF Resources that go over some of ADHD symptoms and strategies to implement.
Lillyana
Jul 291 min read


A Gentle Guide for ADHD Students in PhD Programs
Trauma-Informed Tools for Navigating Academia with Compassion and Strength 1. Understanding the Intersection of ADHD and Trauma Many PhD...
Lillyana
Jul 294 min read


Navigating Shame: A Trauma-Informed Approach with Internal Family Systems
Shame is one of the most painful and isolating emotions, yet it is also one of the most universal. For those who have experienced trauma,...
Lillyana
Mar 224 min read


Navigating Through The Darkness: A Trauma-Informed Guide to Understanding and Dealing with Nightmares
Nightmares can be more than just bad dreams; they can stir feelings of fear and uncertainty, especially for those who have experienced...
Lillyana
Mar 173 min read


Unmasking Your Inner Child: Compassionate Healing for ADHD and Trauma Survivors
Having ADHD often means navigating a complex emotional landscape that is deeply intertwined with childhood experiences. As we journey...
Lillyana
Mar 153 min read


Can Equine-Assisted Therapy Be the Game-Changer for ADHD Treatment?
For individuals with ADHD, traditional therapy can sometimes feel uninspiring. Focus, emotional regulation, and sensory sensitivity can...
Lillyana
Mar 83 min read


Relearning to Listen: Honoring Your Body's Signals in a World of Noise
In today's fast-paced world, we often prioritize work and productivity over our own health. Many ignore their bodies' signals,...
Lillyana
Mar 54 min read


Exploring Personal Qualities: A Trauma-Informed Approach to Pursuing Future Well-being
Understanding ourselves can sometimes feel overwhelming, especially when we think about past experiences and traumas that may have shaped...
Lillyana
Mar 46 min read


Navigating the Complex Interplay of ADHD, Trauma, and Self-Perception: Finding Balance in 'Too Much' and 'Not Enough'
Many individuals with ADHD experience their self-perception as a pendulum swinging back and forth. One moment, they may feel they are...
Lillyana
Mar 14 min read


Embracing Our Inner World: Navigating ADHD with Internal Family Systems Therapy
For many millennial women, living with ADHD can often feel like an emotional tug-of-war. With constant responsibilities and exhaustive...
Lillyana
Feb 284 min read


Unveiling the Hidden World of Emotional Regulation: Your Comprehensive Guide to Understanding the Window of Tolerance
Have you ever felt completely overwhelmed by stress or experienced a sense of numbness that made it hard to respond? These feelings are...
Lillyana
Feb 243 min read


Unsaddling the Burdens: A Therapy Horse's Journey Through Healing
As I stand in my paddock, feeling the gentle breeze caress my mane, I think about the moments that fill my days. My life as a therapy...
Lillyana
Feb 194 min read
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